I followed NC rule after that. We work in same office so when I was back he started messaging me again and said he wants to be friends. I was not ok about it so I said no. I also came to know that he already has a new gf. I like him still and every time he sends a text my heart goes to him but that is the extent to it, just a message from him. He never leads the conversation to something more serious. Some advice would be great.
My ex and I have been going through some personal troubles this week. His mother had a heart attack. My Aunt died. I immediately apologized and tried to rectify my actions.
He drew back and ignored me. After a week, he contacted me and said we needed to talk. That he was coming over. Because I said no, he blocked me and is provoking me on social media. Is it mind games out of hurt? Or is he is just a narcissist? I could really use some advice. I can see you are going thru a difficult time. Perhaps a period of No Contact might be the right medicine.
Sir my ex bf left me and he agreed to be friend with me. But I applied no contact rule cause I still love him. I decided not to give him details of my life and let the things mysterious so he can again get interested in me. He messaged me two times in 15 days at 10 to 12 am after two months.. He messaged me two times in 15 days at 10 to 12 am after two months.
About a year ago and a half ago, I was ghosted. We joked about.. Why in the world, would he deliberately mess with my head like that? Is he that ego driven.
What did he gain from that? I preferred the ghosting comparatively to those texts. My ex and I both had crushes on each other for more than 2 years now even tho we were together for only 2 months, i was sick of him not beeing able to hang out or for days passing and him forgetting to text me. He values his pride and respect a lot, making him weak sometimes. One day i was really tired of overthinking everything including if he even wanted to be with me.
Non of my messages said i want to break up but they where suggestive and i was telling him how that is not relationship i want to have, he than said it might be best to break up we chatted for a while jokingly because we were good friends even before we got together.
After that next month was complete silence. He would skip classes we go to the same class just so that he wouldnt have taken the same bus i did, or he would go out of the school running fastly for me not to notice him. He would avoid me at all costs and he would be even scared to look me in the eyes.
Than in some group chat he asked me for something and we talked a little but only concerning school stuff, next day at school we finally exchanged a few words he also never showed up on the first class in last month because he is sleepy, but that day he was early and dressed up now it has been few days and i feel like he is playing with me. He asked for every single one of the students for something for example pen but skipped out only on me and that happened a few times, also our communication that day we talked was just like it was while we were together his body language showed that he was attracted to me i caught him looking at my lips a few time and etc.
Also he is really immature and tries to hide his emotions at all costs. I just dont know how i can get troughs to him, I still have very strong feelings towards him and I want us to work out but I am not sure he is ready for a relationship. I was his first girlfriend. Hi Taylor.. Check out my program. Attraction and connections occur and strengthen over time. However, after a year or two dating, he would always act distant and initiated the breakup, and we fell into that toxic on and off pattern.
Our most recent breakup which he initiated again, was my last straw. I was done with this vicious cycle. We would talk to each other over the phone here and there. Nothing serious. Last time we communicated, it seemed very civil and everything was fine. My emotions have been up and down throughout this process. Is he dragging this break up or does he not want his things anymore? I wish I know.
It unusual for someone who has attachment to you for about 9 years. I could speculate, but that would do you little good. My ex and I got back together after 12 years apart dated other people in between, I married and had children then separated with my husband, he had 2 serious relationships after me but we remained friends with sporadic contact over the 12 years. Everything was going great, he met my children after a few months of being back together but I was still living with my ex husband separate rooms and we only really slept and ate in the same house as we were both working a lot and concentrating on the children , obviously my ex I got back with was aware of this before we even got back together and as we have known each other since we were children he trusted me and I told my ex husband about him and he was happy for me and never tried to interfere or get me back at all.
Myself and my now once again boyfriend lived around 40 minutes from each other but I would stay at his as often as I could or we would have date nights or meet friends for drinks, etc.
When were you thinking? Wait around foe you to make your mind up what you wanted? This came completely out of nowhere and he then went on to get back into a Relationship with another ex one of the 2 who he was with after myself and him the first time around and moved away from the area to be with her.
Fast forward to just over a year later and he has been messaging me sporadically over the past year until 2 months ago when the contact became more frequent. But I relayed my fears to him and he said it would be just a drink and a catch up and because he missed seeing me.
I told him I was daring someone and it was going well although we were taking it slow and he just badmouthed him without even knowing him. Is he playing games? Or is it because he knows we share this insane chemistry and he is alnost guaranteed some intimacy and company? Should I meet him for a drink or just leave it as friends with sporadic contact? How are things? So there is a lot going on here. I am wondering if he is acting from an impulsive place. I would be cautious…. My ex and I dated for three months and everything was perfect and we were working towards a relationship.
Making Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous. If he does it I have to nag. He isn't good at housework and I would say he doesn't even try or care. Even when I worked 40 hours and commuted 5 hours to that job I was still supposed to cook and clean and keep things going, or things will never ever get done until we run out of everything.
Lately he has tried to help me more and he will do about minutes or something and then he goes to his computer and clicks around for a bit and adjusts things on his games or even plays a game min.
It's like a cigarette addiction: has to have a game break every hour or more. He tells me to get a hobby so it won't just be him with one. I often don't feel like starting a hobby because I am too overwhelmed with house stuff There is no amount of talking about games that doesn't infuriate him.
No amount of decreasing his playing time is acceptable I am also worried about his health. It is not rare for him to stay up until a. He stays up late the night before his days off too which sometimes means he is too sleepy to function at all the next day and that bothers me. He works to provide everything for us, minus the home but he does pay all the bills for the home. Last year he had an intensely stressful job requiring 60 hours of work a week.
He made a lot of money but he was miserable. When he was having the hardest weeks at work I never said a word about the games. He would come home say hi, kiss me on the cheek and go right to his computer until he came to bed. I'd cook dinner and bring it to him. He was in a bad, bad place and I felt I was supporting him. He never remembers that or didn't even realize. He never notices when I don't say a word about games. He backpedals every time he starts to seem more invested.
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